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New Mum Of Two

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New Mum of Two

by Guest Author
Writer Jess Urlichs shares a poem about being a mother to two.
child behavioral charts

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Why Using A Behavior Chart Is Ineffective

by Ashley Patek
Before you decide to add to or continue using behavioral management charts, let's take a closer look at the undesirable side-effects. Read more.
This Twist on a Classic Teaches Children Loving Limits and Boundaries

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This Twist on a Classic Teaches Children Loving Limits and Boundaries

by Ashley Patek
While some may say that The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein is a tale of selfless love, others find the story actually sends a much different message --- one of co-dependency.
Santa's 'Naughty List' Has Been Canceled This Holiday Season

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Santa's 'Naughty List' Has Been Canceled This Holiday Season

by Ashley Patek
The holiday season is meant to be a magical time, but often it is used as leverage to control a child’s behavior. We have a real opportunity to rewrite the narrative. Here's how.
What Young Children Need You to Know About Separation Anxiety

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What Young Children Need You to Know About Separation Anxiety

by Rebecca Eanes
Children are born with a need for attachment and so it stands to reason that separation is a great fear for many children. This doesn’t mean we cannot ever be separated from them, but rather that we take time to understand the developmental aspect of this issue so that we can fulfill their need for attachment in our absence.
Portable Emotional ToolKit for Sensitive Kids

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Portable Emotional ToolKit for Sensitive Kids

by Guest Author
How do you discipline a highly sensitive child? Using time-ins help children understand and mange their deep emotional world, nurturing connection and emotional intelligence. Here are 8 tips to building a portable ToolKit for your child to help them regulate not only at home but on the go.
Thank You: A Father’s Day Poem

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Thank You: A Father’s Day Poem

by Guest Author
This mama writes a poem to her husband as she navigates her baby blues, teary eyes, breastfeeding, and raw limits.
Why Is My Child Behaving This Way?

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Why Is My Child Behaving This Way?

by Ashley Patek
Power struggles ... meltdowns ... defiance. Here's what's causing your child's behavior and tools for transforming it.   
Emotional Intelligence is More Than Naming Emotions

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Emotional Intelligence is More Than Naming Emotions

by Alex Petrou
Emotional intelligence is more than naming emotions. Remaining calm when our child is emoting requires great patience, often more than we have in reserve.
The Stories Kids Want To Tell About COVID

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The Stories Kids Want To Tell About COVID

by Rebecca Eanes
Our children grew up in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic. Their brains developed in quarantine. Their bodies changed in lockdown. They are emerging from this as different people, and the impact it had on them is yet to be told. Here are 4 things we can do to support our children’s social-emotional health this school year ...
Building A Resilient Brain Through Spirituality

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Building A Resilient Brain Through Spirituality

by Ashley Patek
So many of us are here, questioning if we are “too broken” and “not enough” while equal parts terrified that we will “ruin our children” while also desperately trying to do things differently than were done to us. Maybe this one thing is the answer to our mental health crisis.
Gift giving

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6 Meaningful Christmas Gifts

by Ashley Patek
Rather than storing unwanted toys in the closet, this year give the children on your list meaningful memories instead. Here are six connection-based gift ideas for ages two and up that we love for the holidays.
5 Therapeutic Art Activities for Emotional Health

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5 Therapeutic Art Activities for Emotional Health

by Rebecca Eanes
Art can help your child release and express feelings they may not know how to process and let go of otherwise. Use these 5 art activities to navigate loss, stress and transitions and to nurture emotional intelligence such as managing big emotions. 
The Harm Of Forcing Manners On Our Children (And What To Do Instead)

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The Harm Of Forcing Manners On Our Children (And What To Do Instead)

by Ashley Patek
If we want to step away from punitive measures and towards a deep understanding of manners, and an internal motivation to practice them, it stops with “say the magic word” or “say you are sorry” or “what do you say???” And it starts with these 5 tools. 
3 Ways To Transform Your Child's Behavior

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3 Ways To Transform Your Child's Behavior

by Ashley Patek
This mom was searching for a way to transform her child's misbehavior. And it was these three connection-based tools that did it.
To My Strong-Willed And Sensitive Boy

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To My Strong-Willed And Sensitive Boy

by Ashley Patek
A poem to her son. One mom watches her strong-willed boy drift to sleep and she sees the child under the big emotions and power struggles, and it restores her for whatever tomorrow brings.