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Reclaiming Authenticity Through Self-Love

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Reclaiming Authenticity Through Self-Love

by Guest Author on Feb 07 2022
A mama shares a poem about shedding old narratives and expectations so that she can be her authentic self, and in doing so, her six-year-old son is empowered to do the same.
3 Successful And Unique Alternatives To Yelling For A More Peaceful Home

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3 Successful Alternatives To Yelling For A More Peaceful Home

by Ashley Patek on Feb 07 2022
One of the hardest parts of parenting is not the learning. It is the unlearning. When yelling is your natural impulse, these three tips can help you channel what you are feeling in a healthy, productive way. 
5 Ways To Do Self-Care For Busy Moms

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5 Ways To Do Self-Care For Busy Moms

by Rebecca Eanes on Feb 07 2022
For so long, us mothers have lived as if she who disappears the most, loves the most. We have been conditioned to prove our love by slowly ceasing to exist. But we don't have to. Here are 5 ways to nurture yourself in small, manageable ways. Because, mama, you matter, too.  
Determination May Feel Unpleasant, And It's Useful

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Determination May Feel Unpleasant, And It's Useful

by Ashley Patek on Feb 02 2022
Determination isn't a bad emotion. It is an informative one. And while determination isn’t necessarily a pleasant sensation in the body, it is an important edge that brings about resilience and grit.
Building A Resilient Brain Through Spirituality

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Building A Resilient Brain Through Spirituality

by Ashley Patek on Jan 31 2022
So many of us are here, questioning if we are “too broken” and “not enough” while equal parts terrified that we will “ruin our children” while also desperately trying to do things differently than were done to us. Maybe this one thing is the answer to our mental health crisis.
20 Parenting Phrases to Use in a Pinch

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20 Parenting Phrases to Use in a Pinch

by Rebecca Eanes on Jan 31 2022
These tried and true phrases will help you respond to your child in a way that keeps the peace, shows empathy, holds boundaries and brings calm to the situation. Test out a few and use the ones that feel right when you need to.
3 Powerful Ways Parents Can Break The Cycle Of Emotional Wounding

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3 Powerful Ways Parents Can Break The Cycle Of Emotional Wounding

by Guest Author on Jan 27 2022
Want to react to your children less with yelling, lecturing, and punitive measures - to parent differently than you were parented? This is how we break the cycle.
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20 Ways to Speak Your Child’s Love Language

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20 Ways to Speak Your Child’s Love Language

by Rebecca Eanes on Jan 24 2022
What love language does your child speak and how can you speak it so they feel deeply valued and loved?
Helping Your Highly Sensitive Child Gain Confidence

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Helping Your Highly Sensitive Child Gain Confidence

by Rebecca Eanes on Jan 17 2022
When our children are highly sensitive, rejection and criticism hurt more deeply. They get embarrassed easily and have strong emotional reactions, which can make them the target for bullying. Here are 5 tools to boost your child's confidence. 
Breaking the cycle: Punitive Punishment to Restorative Discipline

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Breaking The Cycle: A Shift from Punitive to Positive Parenting

by Ashley Patek on Jan 17 2022
A shift from punitive punishment to positive parenting. One mama shares her story of breaking the generational cycle of spanking to connection-based childrearing.
The Harm Of Forcing Manners On Our Children (And What To Do Instead)

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The Harm Of Forcing Manners On Our Children (And What To Do Instead)

by Ashley Patek on Jan 17 2022
If we want to step away from punitive measures and towards a deep understanding of manners, and an internal motivation to practice them, it stops with “say the magic word” or “say you are sorry” or “what do you say???” And it starts with these 5 tools. 
I Am Not An Angry Mom. I'm An Overwhelmed, Single Mom. Now What?

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I Am Not An Angry Mom. I'm An Overwhelmed, Single Mom. Now What?

by Ashley Patek on Jan 17 2022
Being able to take a break is a privilege. Having mental health resources is a privilege. Having options is a privilege. Not all of us have it. So what do we do when there is no one to pass the baton to?
Your Child’s Happiness Isn’t Your Job 

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Your Child’s Happiness Isn’t Your Job 

by Rebecca Eanes on Jan 10 2022
We cannot make our children happy, but we can teach them how to make themselves happy, because ultimately, happiness is an inside job. Here are five tools to help children find their own happiness. 
Helping Kids Process Their Emotions Free From Shame

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Helping Kids Process Their Emotions Free From Shame

by Alex Petrou on Jan 10 2022
If you’ve ever caught yourself wanting to tell an emotional child to just stop, (so basically, if you are a human being) here are three things to keep in mind that will help you help kids process their emotions free from shame.   
Three Words Our Kids Need To Hear

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Three Words Our Kids Need To Hear

by Ashley Patek on Jan 03 2022
Looking to decrease power struggles, meltdowns, and "defiance"? These are the three words that your child needs to hear.
I'm Not An Angry Mom. I'm An Overwhelmed Mom.

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I Am Not An Angry Mom. I'm An Overwhelmed Mom.

by Ashley Patek on Jan 03 2022
We aren’t angry parents. We are just parents with unmet needs, lagging skills, and lots of overwhelm - both sensorially and emotionally. Here is the one real solution. 
In 2022, Ditch The Parenting Goals. Set Intentions Instead.

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In 2022, Ditch The Parenting Goals. Set Intentions Instead.

by Ashley Patek on Dec 27 2021
Instead of setting goals for the New Year, set intentions. It will save your sanity, especially when parenting children. Here's how.
Your Words Affect Your Child’s Brain

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Your Words Affect Your Child’s Brain

by Rebecca Eanes on Dec 27 2021
Are we collectively destroying the potential of a generation with our mouths?  As parents, we hold many of the keys to our children’s futures. These keys are the words we speak to them. 
Why Does My Teen Do That?!

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Why Does My Teen Do That?!

by Rebecca Eanes on Dec 27 2021
The teenage years are a critical time period for brain growth. The physiological changes that take place in adolescence cause behaviors that are often misunderstood. We explain them here.